Do you like lemons? Well, many of us do like lemons, but usually they need to be sweetened up in some way for us to enjoy them. Maybe lemon cookies, or some other kind of lemon treat. Why? Well, because lemons are very sour! We can still enjoy them, but taken straight, they are not all that enjoyable, and certainly have no sweetness!
In our lives, though, we have many kinds of lemons. Bad cars are called lemons. Bad experiences are lemons. Failures are lemons. Why? Because these things leave a bad taste in our mouth, a sour one.
But, there is a habit that we can employ to sweeten up those lemons in our lives… we can do what the old saying says…
Turn those lemons into lemonade!
Yep! We can take those sour lemons, sweeten them up a bit, add some water, and we have lemonade! Lemonade is delicious, don’t you think? I like it a lot! It has a certain tartness, but is sweet too!

When we make a mistake in life, if we learn a lesson from that mistake, we are basically turning that lemon into lemonade. Yes, a certain tartness will remain from the original lemon, but because we can learn from our mistake, we won’t repeat it again, thus we now have lemonade.
Learning from the mistakes that we make is very important. In fact, every mistake that we make presents us with opportunity. What kind of opportunity?
- An opportunity to improve. If we make a mistake in our personal lives, we can study what went wrong and basically make ourselves better people because of the experience and knowledge that we have gained. So, the mistake turns into an opportunity for personal growth.
- Business opportunity. In the past, there have been times when I have made business mistakes. Sometimes they were almost deadly to my business. However, by studying the problem that I have created, I have generally been able to turn the mistake into an opportunity to capitalize and gain more business. You can do that too. At the very least you can learn and be sure not to repeat the mistake. At the best, you can find a way to actually profit from the mistake!
All in all, without a doubt, turning lemons into lemonade is a way for us to grow. A way to turn a negative into a positive. A way to make ourselves better.
Anytime that we give ourselves an opportunity to learn something new, an opportunity to grow in our personal lives, it is a good thing, and we should capitalize on the opportunity!

How about “thinking outside the box,” have you ever heard of that before? Most of us have. But, have you ever stopped to think about what it means? Your “box” consists of the situations that you are comfortable with. The things you know about. Sitting inside your box and looking out allows you to see other areas that are new to you, new situations that are different from what you have experienced. Now that you are looking over the edge of your box and seeing new worlds on the horizon it is your choice, do you jump out of your box and go explore? It might, probably will be uncomfortable, because you can’t be certain what to expect. But, if you don’t experience the discomfort of making that jump, you will never know for sure what awaits you. If you stay inside your box, you will never know what was waiting for you on the horizon. If you are a smart person, you will never be satisfied not knowing, you will always long for the knowledge that only can be gained by experiencing some discomfort.
Some of these things are OK to receive instantly. Some are annoying, though. If a very good friend got a new job and tweets you to tell you about it, that’s great, and I am sure you are very happy for your friend! However, we also get contacted by a lot of people that we barely know. Through cyberspace, we all have a lot of “passing friends” – people that we don’t really know in real life, yet we have met them in passing on the Internet. When a person like that tweets you to let you know what he just ate for dinner… well, sometimes it is nothing but an annoying disturbance in our lives.



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