It was revolutionary!

In the past week or so, I had an opportunity to view a BBC TV Mini-series called Rebels and Redcoats, which focused on the American Revolutionary War in the 1770′s and 1780′s.  I have always been a fan of history and enjoy learning more on the subject.  I would not, could not, consider myself an expert on the American Revolution by any means, but I probably know more on the subject than the “average” American, I would say.

Frankly, I had never heard of this TV mini-series before, but last week I was thumbing through a guide of TV shows, looking for something that I might enjoy viewing, and came upon a listing for this show.  I almost passed it by, not having a huge interest.  But, then it struck me.  Hmm… BBC.  BBC? Of course, the BBC is the British Broadcasting Corporation. The thought came to my mind…  “Hmm… I have never thought about the American Revolution from the British Standpoint!” So, I decided that this might be an interesting show to watch.

 

The end of the American Revolution.  The British Surrender to the Americans as the French look on.

The end of the American Revolution. The British Surrender to the Americans as the French look on.

The show was a series of four 1 hour programs.  As I sat down to watch Episode 1, which was entitled “The Shot Heard Around the World” I was ready to see what this was all about.  The show was hosted by British Historian Richard Holmes.  He seemed a nice and likable fellow, but as he got started in Episode 1, I found myself feeling a bit hostile toward him.  I could not really understand my feelings, because I have no anti-British feelings.  After all, I am an American, and the British are among our very closest of allies.  We have a rich history of cooperation with the Brits.  Of course, not during the American Revolution, though, because the Americans were fighting against the British for our freedom and liberty at that time.  So, as Holmes began the show, he was in Boston, MA, and he was talking about the American Rebels who were going against the British and trying to “stir things up” in the colonies so as to start a fight against the British.  He had some harsh words to say for American heroes like Samuel Adams and other early voices in the revolutionary movement.  In fact, he called them “propagandists.”  I felt offended and angry at some of the things he was saying.

British General Cornwallace

British General Cornwallace

Of course, this was all coming from a British perspective, and I was looking at this through an American perspective.  We were on polar ends of the debate, something which I was not used to for a Brit and an American.

After the first episode aired, I spent some time thinking about my feelings and reactions to the show.  I did find the show quite interesting and eagerly awaited the next episodes.  As I analyzed my thinking, I calmed down a bit, and wanted to just try to watch the show dispassionately to see what was said, and compare that to the things I learned during my American Education.  I realized, of course, that the education I received may be tainted a bit in favor of the American side, while the TV show seemed most certainly tainted toward the British.  Naturally.

One of the comparisons that Holmes kept bringing to the forefront during the show was that the American Revolution had close parallels to the Vietnam War in the 1960′s and 70′s.  Hmm… I had never thought of that before.  How could it be.

Of course, the comparison was that the British forces were equivalent to the US forces in Vietnam, while the American Revolutionaries were equivalent to the Viet Cong.  This kind of sat uneasily with me.  I am a bit young to say that the Vietnam War was the war of my generation, yet I was just becoming a teenager as the conflict ended.  As many Americans would testify, the Vietnam War was a very decisive subject among American people.  The American Revolution would have nearly complete support as an honorable war among Americans, though.  So, how could the two be compared with each other?

Well, from a British perspective, the analogy was pretty spot on, as I kept listing to the comparisons throughout the series.  When we Americans went into Vietnam, we were the powerful force, a world power, yet the lowly Viet Cong beat us, or at least fought to a draw, depending on the perspective.  Same thing in the Revolution, the Brits were no doubt the world Superpower at the time, yet a rag tag band of American “rebels” (the show was constantly calling the Americans rebels, which I suppose they were from the Brit view) beat the Brits.  Another comparison which was given was that in Vietnam the Americans won almost all of the battles, yet lost the war.  Same thing with the Revolution, the Brits won the vast majority of the battles, yet lost the war there.  Probably the most accurate comparison was that the British were fighting in a land that they were not familiar with, just as the Americans did in Vietnam.  Being unfamiliar was a disadvantage and helped the superpower be overwhelmed by a less powerful force.  Anyway, there were plenty of such Vietnam War vs. Revolutionary War comparisons, and the more I listened, the more I started agreeing with the comparison.

In the end, this was a highly interesting TV series for me, and I learned a thing or two – both about the War itself and also about myself.  I had never considered the war from the British perspective, nor, do I think, have most Americans.

So, what does this have to do with Habits for Smart People?  Well, it is a good habit to view a problem or a situation from multiple viewpoints.  Don’t get pigeonholed into a single point of view if you are making an evaluation, if you do that, your final results may not be accurate.

Accepting responsibility

Personal responsibility is a very important concept that a lot of people seem to ignore.  When something is your fault, do you own up to your responsibility?  Or, do you try to pass the blame, or ignore it altogether?

I want to tell you a story today about a time when a lady believed so much in personal responsibility that she even accepted responsibility when the event in question was not even really her fault.  I believe that this lady did a very honorable thing, even if it was far beyond what her true responsibility was.  This story revolves around a very painful event in my life.

In September 1979, my younger sister was killed by a drunk driver.  She was only 15 years old at the time of her death.   Her name  was Charlotte.

Hilltop on a lonely country road

One day, after school, Charlotte had to stay late for a practice session for a fire baton twirling group that she was a member of.  The practice session lasted for several hours after school ended.  After the practice ended, Charlotte was driving home.  Yes, although Charlotte was only 15 she was driving.  This was perfectly legal, because we lived in Louisiana at the time, and the legal driving age there was 15 years old, and she had a legitimate driver’s license.

We lived about 10 miles outside the city.  As Charlotte drove home, out in the countryside, she came to a hill, and as she reached the top of that hill, her life changed in a heartbeat.  There was an older man, perhaps in his 60′s, although I don’t recall his age, who was coming to the top of the same hill from the other direction.  He was drunk, and he was driving on the wrong side of the road.  Because they met each other at the very peak of the hill, they had very little time to react to one another, since they didn’t see each other coming.  The man was drunk anyway, so perhaps he would not have been able to react in any event.  Charlotte was a young driver, so perhaps her reaction time was slower than an experienced driver.  Whatever the reason, they hit each other head-on at the top of that hill.  The drunk fellow died instantly, as he was thrown from his vehicle.  My sister, Charlotte did not die immediately, but rather lived long enough to be sent to a hospital.  But, as I said, her life was changed, because before she was able to make it to the hospital, she passed away.

Nasty CrashIt’s a sad story, no doubt, and it had a major impact on my life, but how is this related to personal responsibility?  Well, that comes a bit later.

A few weeks or maybe a couple of months after this traffic accident, a lady showed up at my father’s office.  My father didn’t know who the lady was, but she said that she wanted to speak to my father in private.  So, my father invited her into his private office, and they sat down to talk.  The lady told my father that she was the wife of the man who killed my sister.  She apologized to my father, and begged his forgiveness.  My father, as would be expected, was quite shocked by this.  It is not often that somebody would do something like this.  The lady was taking personal responsibility for something that her husband did!

This really had a deep impact on my father.  He told the lady that he could understand how she felt, because they had both lost a loved on on that highway that night.  He did not blame the lady, or get mad at her.  It was not her fault, after all.

I thought about this incident the other day, and it really struck me how honorable this lady was in her actions.  I had not really thought about this for perhaps 20 years or more, and when I remembered it, it brought a bit of a tear to my eye.  Both for the memory of my sister, and the honor that this lady showed in a trying time.

That was more than 30 years ago, and I don’t know for sure, but suspect that the lady has passed on by now.  Wherever she is, I hope that she is resting in peace, or living in peace, because she did an honorable thing, no doubt.  I certainly harbor no ill will toward her. In fact, I don’t even feel any anger toward her husband either.

Counting your chickens

I am sure that most readers have heard the old saying – “Don’t count your chickens before they are hatched.”  It truly is a bad habit to get into, without a doubt.

I thought of this saying just this morning when I was reviewing my earnings from some advertising that I had placed on one of my websites.  I have been using this advertiser on a number of my sites for several years now, and the income that they produce for me is very good.  I would say that they are probably my best advertiser on any of my sites, without a doubt.

Over the past two months or so, my earnings from this advertiser have really increased greatly, and very quickly.  You see, I get paid based on results.  The better the ad performs for the advertiser, the more they pay me.  If the ad is on my site, but the advertiser makes little or no money, well, like them, I make very little myself.  So, over the past couple of months I have been very happy with the performance, and with my earnings in particular.

Oops, these aren't chickens, but it's not good to count any birds before they hatch!

Oops, these aren't chickens, but it's not good to count any birds before they hatch!

However, in the past few days, I have seen a downturn in earnings.  Today, my earnings sprang back to previous levels, though, so everything is good.  But, results of the past few days left me feeling somewhat bad, because earnings that I had started counting on just were not there.

Ah, those are indeed chickens.  Some have hatched, some have not!

Ah, those are chickens. Some have hatched, some have not!

That’s the bad news… I had been counting my chickens already, and they had yet to hatch!

The fact is, when we start seeing results to our hard work, it is not time to rest and watch as everything starts to pay off.  When the results start to come in, it is a good sign for us, the things we are doing are right!  However, now that the work we did has been shown to be producing the results we expected, it is time to redouble our efforts and make sure that things continue going down the right path.  If we start to rest, we will forget things.  We will become weary of hard work, and we won’t follow through.  Seeing the results that we want is a good sign that we are doing the right thing.  It should also be a sign to us that we need to keep working if we want the results to continue paying off for us.

Counting your chickens before they hatch is an old saying that might not hold much meaning for us when we think about it.  However, as with many such “old sayings” there is some truth there, and we should be sure to follow that truth.

Good luck to you with all of your projects, and keep your nose to the grindstone if you want your work to continue paying your dividends!

A very bad habit

This site is about habits for smart people.  I do consider myself smart, and other people tell me I am smart.

Smart people can have good habits, and we should strive to keep doing these good things.  We can also have bad habits, and we should work to try to overcome our bad habits.

One bad habit is setting up a website, having good ideas on how to populate that site with informative and entertaining content, and then dropping the ball.  That is what I’ve done on this site.  I got it started, and wrote some articles, interesting ones, I hope.  But, I dropped the ball.  I stopped posting new content here.  That is something that is a bad habit, and I want to address that.

Gotta get back to the keyboard!

Gotta get back to the keyboard!

There are multiple ways to address something that has become a bad habit.  In this case, the bad habit of ignoring this site.  I can see two ways of addressing this bad habit.

  1. I can simply shut down the site and move on with something else.  By doing this, I no longer need to worry myself about needing to write articles to put here.
  2. I can push myself to change this habit, turn it around, and start posting new content here.

I choose to do #2.  I am planning to redouble my efforts and start posting content here for those who read the site to enjoy.  Frankly, I am lucky if I still have readers here, because I have ignored the site, and most readers have probably already given up on finding interesting content here.  However, there are things I can do to win readers back, and to start building up new readers here.  I intend to do those things.

Bob MartinIt takes time to build an audience, no doubt about that.  For those who are brand new at blogging, it can take a very long time.  Even if you have great content, great insight and such, it just takes time for people to find you.  In my case, it is easier to gain a loyal following of leaders, because I already have other popular sites.  By promoting this site to my already loyal readers on other sites, I can build up a following here more quickly than somebody who is just getting started.  However, the downside is that if you go to the well too often, and then you don’t delivery, well, you risk the chance of losing followers, or if they continue following you on other sites, they just won’t follow you on new sites, because they feel that you lack the commitment to keep it going.

I want to turn that around.  I want to develop a new good habit of delivering good relevant content here.

Check back and see how I do.  It is my current plan to start adding a couple of new articles here every week.  Hope to see you again!