If you are not guilty, are you innocent?

I am not a lawyer, and using the old joke, I never even played one on TV.  I will say, though, that there was a time in my life when I thought I wanted to become an attorney, and I am still interested in legal matters to some extent.

Recently, there has been a trial in the United States that has been widely followed.  Of course, many people will easily know that I am talking about the trial of Casey Anthony, over the murder of her daughter Caylee Anthony in 2008.  This post is not really specifically about that trial, although the contents of this post were inspired by the results of the trial.  But, as far as the guilt of innocence of Casey Anthony, I’ll leave that for others to talk about, because it is, to be honest, of little interest to me.

The US Supreme Court Justices

The US Supreme Court Justices

After Ms. Anthony was found to be “not guilty” though, there has been discussion on TV among legal experts.  A lot of lawyers that I have seen on TV have exclaimed that “she was not found by the jury to be innocent of the crime, it was found that she was not guilty.”  Of course, I can see the difference between the two, although in some ways the argument is like splitting hairs.

Innocent

Innocent

In one instance, if a person is found to be guilty of a crime, that means that the justice system has found that indeed, they did commit the crime.

On the other hand, if the jury finds the person to be “not guilty” of the crime, it means strictly that evidence has not been presented that is strong enough to consider the person to be guilty of the crime.  The jury does not have the option of finding the person “innocent,” they must choose between guilty or not guilty.

So, these legal experts pontificate that since the jury found the defendant to be “not guilty” that does not necessarily mean that the person is innocent.

But is that correct?

I always thought that the statement was correct, but after thinking it over recently, I find that the statement is not correct at all.  I would argue that if a jury finds a defendant to be not guilty, that person is indeed innocent.

How?

Why?

Well, under the United States system of jurisprudence, a person is “Innocent until proven guilty.”  If a jury finds that a person is “not guilty” that would mean that the person is not guilty of the crime.  Further, if you extrapolate, if you have been found to not be guilty, you are innocent, because you are innocent until proven guilty.  You were never proven to be guilty, thus you are still innocent, and always will be.

Anybody care to argue that point?  It seems simple to me.

Incorporating Faith into your life

Look, I am going to be very up front and clear.  I am not a Bible thumping person who goes around pushing my religion on others.  Not at all.  In fact, I admit freely that I often feel that my faith is not as strong as it should be.  I am a Christian, and I try to live a life that follows the path of the Lord, although like all of us, I am not always successful in that quest.  In fact, I often am not, even though I desire to be.

I will also readily admit that sometimes when I read or talk to people who tell me that there is no God, I can be vulnerable and consider the possibility that they may be right.  Thus, my faith is not nearly as strong as I wish it was, or where I think it should be.  But, in the end, I believe in God.  When times come up when my faith wavers a bit and I consider the possibility that there may be no God, even then I feel that I should live a clean life where I care for my brothers in the world, and live in a way that follows the same path that we are taught by God.

On the road to faith

On the road to faith

I also understand that we, as a human race, follow different belief systems.  I believe in God and his son, Jesus Christ.  I have friends who are Jewish, Muslim, Atheists, Agnostic and whatever other belief systems you can think of.  I have no problem with any of them.  In part, I believe that we are all worshiping the same being, just with different names, and slightly different beliefs about that entity.  Well, of course the Atheists do not follow any God, although they have their own personal belief system.  I have no problem with any of that.  What I choose to believe and what you choose to believe may be different, but I feel that we can still live with respect and even admiration toward each other.  I don’t see a conflict.  I also do not feel a need to make an effort to convert others to my belief system.

Journey of Faith

Journey of Faith

There is something that happened today, this morning, which strengthens my faith.  Truth is, this thing that happened has happened so many times over in my life that I should expect it.  You see, this morning I had a need for something that was lacking in my life.  I felt it was impossible that the thing I needed could be obtained, at least not today.  Maybe someday my need would be fulfilled, maybe not.  But, I felt like I needed to have that need fulfilled today, and just felt it was not even remotely possible.  I have been thinking about that need for some time now, but this morning I felt it was critical in my life to get fulfillment of the need.  About half an hour after I was thinking that, I got an e-mail from somebody whom I don’t know.  He knows me through reading some of my websites and such, but I don’t know him.  Well, he e-mailed me and told me he wanted to do something for me, and went on to tell me what he was going to do.  The thing he was going to do was to fulfill that need that has been on my mind.  I thought it was impossible, but now he has already done it.

Now, I just feel that if there was no God, how could such a thing happen?  Just by chance?  The odds of that are nearly zero.

As I say, this sort of filling of a need at the seemingly most opportune time has happened to me before, when I felt the need was strong.  It can be anything in life that is needed.  So, it leaves me wondering, if this sort of thing has happened many times over in my 49 years of life, how can I let my faith waver at times?  I guess it is because of being human and imperfect.

What I do know is that I am very thankful that my need was fulfilled this morning, and I am thankful to the person who filled that need.

So, I have to say, I believe that incorporating faith into your life is a smart thing to do.  It’s not that a smart person can analyze and come up with proof of a God, or anything like that.  In fact, it is about being smart enough to give up some control and believe in something even without evidence.  That’s what faith is all about, and I believe that faith is a smart thing to have in my life.

Sticking with something that doesn’t work

Albert Einstein had a great quote, you’ve probably hear it, but here it is again for those who have not:

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

Yep, if you are doing something and the results show that it is not working, why would you keep doing it over and over again?  It certainly is not a very smart thing to do, yet many people do exactly that, even people who are smart.

So, for me, what it comes down to is that if you have tried an idea and it does not work, you can refine it and try it again, you can even do that several times.  But, if, in the end, you still cannot get your idea to work, it is time for you to accept that it is better to simply move on and find a new thing to do, something that actually works.

Einstein defined crazy!

Einstein defined crazy!

But, like I said, you don’t need to quit after the first time.  I don’t think that Einstein would say that it is crazy to try something a half dozen times if you are making adjustments and trying to get your idea to work.  In fact, I think it would be crazy not to try it a number of times.  Fact is, few things work perfectly the first time, so you really should try again and again, just not in perpetuity.

However, that said, you really must have a built in barometer to determine when it is time to throw in the towel, and move on.

Do you think that it’s shameful to give up and move on?  I don’t.  If you don’t try your idea, you will never know if it will succeed.

The Key to Success

The Key to Success

I heard a saying recently.  It went something like this:

Q: What do you call somebody who has never failed?

A:  A person who has never tried anything.

That’s right, if you don’t try anything you will never fail.  But.. you will also never succeed.

I want to succeed, so I fail from time to time.  What about you?

College! or not….

If you are smart and young, college is in your future.  It’s almost a given that a kid who gets good grades and is recognized as being intelligent will most certainly go to college.

But, should he?

I’ve been thinking about this question lately, and after pondering the question for a week or so, yesterday I learned something that surprised me, but also reinforced my thinking on the matter.

You see, I am not a college graduate.  I don’t regret it, I rarely even think about it.  I attended college for a little over 2 years, but dropped out because, frankly, it bored me to death.  Since I dropped out of college, I have not only not regretted it, but I also feel that it has not hurt me in terms of success either.  I feel that I have lived a fairly successful life.

College - is it right for you?

College - is it right for you?

Having not attended college, or at least not finishing college does not mean you are uneducated, or not smart.  Being smart and your level of formal education are two completely different things.  In fact, I could argue that if you are smart, you need college even less than somebody of average intelligence.  Perhaps being smart can help you recognize that you don’t really need college.

Anyway, having been thinking about this topic for a while now, I have discussed my thoughts with others, some online, others in person.  The reactions are varied, but in general the vast majority of people think that if you want to be successful, you need to have a college degree.  Yesterday, I was reading the news and came across an article that reinforced my thinking, though.

Peter Thiel

Peter Thiel

It seems that the co-founder of Paypal, Peter Thiel, through his Thiel Fellowship, is offering to pay young people not to attend college.  Huh?  Paying them to not go to college? Yes, you read that right.

Thiel has a program going called “Twenty under Twenty” under which 20 people under the age of 20 have been selected to each receive a grant of $100,000 in exchange for not attending college and following their entrepreneurial dreams.  Thiel feels strongly (obviously) that people can be successful by bypassing college and going straight to work on their ideas for business and technology.  He is putting his money where his mouth is.

Peter Thiel has been putting his money where his mouth is for a while now.  Years back, when Mark Zuckerburg started developing Facebook, Thiel saw potential, and he invested $500,000 into Zuckerburg’s idea, that $500,000 is now worth billions.  Zuckerburg ended up dropping out of college and is now a rich man.

Other very successful people have skipped or dropped out of college too.  Bill Gates is a famous example.  Things worked out pretty good for him too!  In fact, here is a list of the wealthiest people in the world who did not complete college:

  1. Bill Gates, founder of Microsoft
  2. Steve Jobs, founder of Apple Computers
  3. Frank Lloyd Wright, famous architect
  4. Buckminster Fuller, architect, philosopher, inventor
  5. James Cameron, movie director
  6. Mark Zuckerberg, Facebook founder
  7. Tom Hanks, Actor
  8. Harrison Ford, Actor
  9. Lady Gaga, Singer
  10. Tiger Woods, Golfer

Now, don’t take me wrong, I do feel that there is a place for colleges.  Primarily, I feel that colleges are good for many people.  In addition, there is a place for a relic from the past:  Trade Schools where people can learn a job or a trade.  But, for people who are already very smart, learning from experience is a great way to go, in my opinion.

So, is college worthwhile?  For many it is.  Not for all, though.

That’s my opinion, what do you think?

Taking some time to laugh at ourselves

No matter how smart you are, I am sure that you do a few stupid things.

What?  A smart person doing stupid things?

You better believe it!

Hey, we all do stupid things from time to time.  I can think of a lot of times when I have done something stupid.  It can be embarrassing, and when you do something stupid, probably the first thing you do is take a peek around you to see if anybody witnessed your stupid act.

How can we overcome doing something stupid.  Well, we can minimize stupid acts by simply being more careful and thinking through our actions a little more instead of acting impulsively.  However, we can never completely eliminate doing stupid things.

Take a look at this video that I found on YouTube:

Come on now… we’ve all done some pretty stupid things.  Can you share with us a story about a stupid thing that you’ve done?

Of course, when you do something stupid, you will be embarrassed.  However, don’t you think it is healthier and just all around better to just admit our stupidity in the moment, and taking a few minutes to just laugh at what we did?  I think so.

Taking Stock

I have a routine.

I think we all have a routine to one extent or another.

Things we do.

Just automatically, almost without even thinking about it.

I think that for most of us, whether we even think about it, our routine is important to us.  It is what we do, and the reason why we do it is simply because for one reason or another, at one time or another in our life, the things we do in our routine have become part of our routine because they are things we need, and things that are important to us.  If these things were not important to us, we would not do them every day.  Right?

This morning, I was in the middle of my morning routine:

  1. Get up.
  2. Boot up my computer.
  3. Check my e-mail to see if anything important came in overnight.
  4. Check a series of websites that publish information on topics that I care about.
Taking Stock

Taking Stock

Hold on.

Scratch that #4 above.

As I was checking my “regular websites” this morning, I realized that much of this stuff was not important to me anymore.  Some of the stuff, to be honest, I really don’t care much about anymore.  Why am I spending time checking about stuff that I really don’t care about.

After the realization, I sat there thinking.

What is important to me these days?  I’ve changed a lot, and it is different things that are important to me than what it used to be.  But, what things really are important to me now?

Honestly, I was not sure anymore.  Oh, of course things like my family and friends are important to me.  That’s not what I’m talking about, those things are a given.  I’m talking about my interests, things that I care enough about to spend some time every day keeping up with the topic.  That sort of thing.

Jimmy Buffett

Jimmy Buffett

As I sat there thinking over what is important in my life, the words to a song that I like came to me.  The song is called “Distantly in Love” by Jimmy Buffett.  The first verse of the song seemed to fit my feelings this morning:

Pay phones all were ringing as the crowd went roarin’ by
Lovely dancers swaying to an island lullaby
Beside the southern ocean taking stock of what’s to be
Writing you this letter that you’ll probably never see

It’s the third line that fit my feeling today – “Beside the southern ocean taking stock of what’s to be.”

Yes, I realized that it’s time for me to take stock of my feelings and interests today, and to revise my routine to something more current.

One of the parts of my routine that really is of little interest to me these days, but used to be, is an interest in US Politics.  I used to be a real political junkie.  These days, I don’t even live in the USA any more, so why do I even care?  Fact is, I don’t care too much any more, but I still check the political news religiously every day.  Why?  I need to cut that off, and spend that time on something that is more relevant to my life that I am living today.  I need to take stock of what’s to be in my life, and modify my routine to fit what I discover when I take stock.

The fact is, as I think this over, we all need to take stock from time to time and unclutter our lives of things that really don’t mean much to us any longer.

Just like what Jimmy Buffett says in the song… I want to go sit next to the southern ocean and take stock of what’s to be.  I think I’ll do it today.

What about you?

My day for good habits

It’s only a little after 10am, and I’ve already made this a day for good habits.  Even though it is still morning, I have already worked in three good habits for my day.

I didn’t set out to make today a “good habits day,” it just happened that way.

I was thinking about it a little while ago, and realized that I was already on a roll for the day, and I might as well work in a few more good habits for the day to make it really spectacular!

What have I done so far today to get the day started right?

Lets have a look:

  1. I went for a good walk.
  2. While out on my walk, I got a haircut.
  3. I made it a priority to write a new article on this site.

I consider each of these to be good habits.  Why?

Walking

Walking is good exercise

Walking is good exercise

Any kind of exercise is a good thing.  In these days when we have computers, TV, all kinds of other such things, it’s easy to lead a lethargic lifestyle.  That’s why we have to force ourselves to get up from that chair and go do something physical.  I basically have two activities that I like to do for exercise.  I like to walk, and I like to swim.  Lately, I have not been swimming much, so I have been relying on walking to get in the exercise that my body needs.  So, this morning, when I decided that I needed to have a haircut today, I decided to walk to the barber shop and to walk back home again.  Why not?  The barber shop is not too far anyway, so I even made a few rounds around different blocks in my neighborhood, taking the “scenic route” to the barber shop.  Getting exercise is important to me, especially because I have diabetes, and exercise helps me maintain good health.  I admit that I don’t always get as much exercise as I should, but lately I have been doing pretty good with it, especially doing a lot of walking.

Haircut

Barber Shop

Barber Shop

I enjoy getting a good haircut, and I find that it makes me feel relaxed and refreshed when I do it.  I try to get a haircut weekly when I can.  Sometimes it slips to every two weeks, but never longer than that.

One of the things I really like here in the Philippines where I live is that when you get a haircut the barber always gives you a massage to end the haircut.  He massages your head, shoulders, back and arms.  It always makes me feel good and relieves a lot of stress when I get a nice massage like that, and getting a haircut makes me feel good too.

So, going to have a haircut is a natural for a good health habit, and an all around good feeling.

Writing here on Habits for Smart People

Writing on my blog

Writing on my blog

The last week or so I have slipped and have not been adding new articles to this site.  When I do that it makes me have a feeling of guilt, which I don’t like.  So, making the commitment to get back to writing, after lapsing, is a good habit to get back into.  I find that the act of writing about good habits helps me maintain good habits in my life.  Writing the articles helps remind me of the kind of lifestyle that I want to lead, and thus it is something important in my life.

So, there you have it.  Just a little after 10am now, and I have three good habits under my belt!  I want to get a few more in before the end of the day, so I better get busy.

What about you?

Tearing people down

Some people engage in the habit of tearing others down.  They nit-pick constantly on other people to belittle them or make them seem small or stupid.  Did you ever ask yourself why some people are like that?

Does tearing another person down build up the person doing the tearing down?  I don’t think so.  In fact, by tearing others down, especially when done publicly, I believe that the person is actually making himself look small.

Today, I saw a quote from a friend on Facebook:

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Teddy Roosevelt's big stick

Teddy Roosevelt's big stick

When I saw this quote, I really fell in love with it, almost immediately.  I feel it is related to the tearing down of others, and trying to make yourself look good by doing that.

I find the quote is very true, also.  It kind of relates back to the words of Teddy Roosevelt:

Speak softly, but carry a big stick.

Of course, the “big stick” is the wisdom and strength of the words used in the argument.  Facts.  If you argue the facts, you can never lose.  If you are arguing without any facts, and do so by simply amplifying your voice in the argument, well, you will not be the winner, except in your own eyes.

Big Stick

Big Stick

There is really something to be said for Teddy Roosevelt’s words about speaking softly while carrying a big stick.  Do you remember, last week, I wrote about the celebrations on the streets of the USA after the killing of Usama bin Laden?  That, in my opinion, was not “soft” speaking, but being loud and boisterous.  That was an example of speaking loudly while carrying a big stick, and was unnecessary.

I suppose that if you have a small stick, or no stick at all, you don’t have much choice but to speak softly, or so it would seem.  But, come to think of it, some of the loudest people have little or no stick with which to win their fight.  I am talking, for the most part, about people who are internet bullies, and belittle people.  Most of these people really have no facts at all, but they think that by speaking loudly they will be the winner.

Frankly, I think that Teddy Roosevelt had a lot of the right thinking.  Speaking softly is always a good thing.  Having a big stick has it’s benefits too!

When opportunity knocks, what should you do?

These days, the economy is terrible.  A lot of people, perhaps most people, are facing a life that is a lot more difficult than it was 5 years ago.  Some people are saying that our children may face a life of more hardship and poverty than we faced.  That would be a first for many generations, if it is true.

However, are there ways that we can overcome the adversity that we face from the world economy?  Sure we can.  Perhaps we will have to do a lot of work and building to accomplish the lifestyle that we enjoyed a decade ago, but that does not mean it is impossible.  A little hard work never hurt anybody, right?  In fact, life a decade ago was probably too void of the hard work that we faced in previous decades.  Perhaps getting back to working a little harder may be the answer to the situation that we face.

Opportunity Way

Opportunity Way

I’m sure we have all heard the old saying about “opportunity knocking.”  Let me ask you this… what do you do when opportunity knocks?  Do you answer the door when there is knocking?  Before you answer “yes,” or “of course I do” think about it.  I didn’t ask if you answer the door when you hear a knock.  What if there is a knock but you don’t hear it?  Of course, if you don’t hear it, you don’t answer, right?  That’s probably why many decades ago the doorbell was invented.  It made the sound louder when somebody was at the door, so that we could more easily hear it, and would answer the door.

Opportunity has no doorbell, though.  You have to be diligent if you want to be sure that you see opportunity and answer the door when opportunity is knocking.

What do you mean, Bob?

Opportunity Knocked - Were you out?

Opportunity Knocked - Were you out?

Well, when opportunity is in front of us, it does not always hold a big sign saying “I am an opportunity,” sometimes we have to analyze it carefully and come to the realization that what you are looking at is an opportunity, and that you can seize that opportunity.

Think about it.  We both agree that economically we are going through a difficult time at this juncture, right?  Maybe some of you who are reading this are unemployed.  The odds are that a fair number of readers are under-employed, having jobs that are good enough to just get by, but don’t really utilize the true talents that you have.  Maybe the only job that you can find is a part time job that makes just enough to pay the rent.  So, some of you readers are under tough economic pressure right now.  That is an opportunity.

What?  This is an opportunity?

Yes, I believe that it is, you just don’t recognize the opportunity.  But, think about it.  During this tough time, would you like for somebody to come along and ease your suffering, and make your life better?  Think about what it would be that somebody could do to improve your life right now.  If you come up with any ideas of what could be done, you just identified opportunity!  That’s right, you just found a list of things that you could do to help others.  I mean, if you are in a tough situation and others are too, surely the things that you need or want to assist you would also be desired by others.  Perhaps you could begin offering services to assist others in need.  That is an opportunity that is being present to you, yet you might not have seen it or recognized  it because you were too busy trying to figure out how to get out of the situation you find yourself in.  So, now that you know some things that are needed, you have to get busy figuring out how best to turn what you discovered into a small business.  You can do it!

Always be on the lookout for opportunity.  In my life, for years and years I have been doing that.  Everyplace I go, I am watching for ways that I can benefit from things that I see or encounter.  It’s not all about making money, there are other things that opportunity can do when you answer the door:

  • Improve your life
  • Make you a happier person
  • Help you earn money
  • Help you to help others
  • Meet new people that will improve your life
  • the list is endless, but you have to look for and recognize opportunity when it presents itself!

You can do it.  But, you have to be on the lookout for opportunity, because you never know when or where it will present itself!

What does Usama bin Laden’s death say about us

It’s certainly not news to anybody that Usama bin Laden was killed on May 2, 2011 in Pakistan.  His death was announced by US President Barack Obama late on the evening of May 1, Eastern Standard Time.  Within only a short time after the announcement, the streets in front of the White House were crowded with revelers celebrating the death.

I must say, I was happy that bin Laden was finally dealt justice, it was a long time coming.  I feel that what bin Laden received was certainly coming to him, and I only wish he had gotten his justice many years ago.

Usama bin Laden was the mastermind and financier of many terrorist attacks over the years.  Perhaps one of the earliest attacks with bin Laden’s fingerprints was the 1993 bombing of the World Trade Centers in New York.  Over the years, up to 2001 bin Laden struck many other targets as well.  Of course, on September 11, 2001, bin Laden’s biggest attack occurred, again on the World Trade Centers, and a couple of other targets in the United States.

Celebration of bin Laden's death

Celebration of bin Laden's death

When I saw the announcement by President Obama, I was happy that the rein of bin Laden had come to an end, and hopeful that this was the beginning of the end of terrorism as we know it today.  That is probably too hopeful, as others will fill the shoes left empty by bin Laden.  However, when I saw the wild celebrations, I was a bit saddened.  I posted this on my Facebook Status:

Justice is sweet. Wild celebration is not necessary, though. We should celebrate by remembering the victims.

You see, I felt that it would be more appropriate to remember the victims, and not be boastful about the victory over bin Laden.  Being boastful is not a good habit to get into, because it only sets you up for a fall.  When I saw the celebrations unfolding, I was reminded of some scenes we saw from the Arab world on September 11 where people were dancing in the streets.  I didn’t like those celebrations at that time, and I also felt that the celebrations earlier this week were unwarranted.  They showed no class.  They were an “in your eye” type of reaction.  The US should be better than the people who danced in the streets on 9/11, we should be more composed, more mature, and more introspect.  It’s the smart way to do it.  By celebrating, we are also challenging bin Laden’s followers to retaliate, which I am sure they will try to do.

Usama bin Laden

Usama bin Laden

Yes, there is a major difference between what happened on May 2, 2011 and September 11, 2001.  Usama bin Laden and his Al Qaeda cohorts killed around 3,000 innocents.  On May 2, 2011, those who were killed were not innocent, and had death coming to them, without a doubt.  I still feel, though, that the smart reaction would be to honor those who were slaughtered on 9/11, rather than dance in the streets over the death of bin Laden.

After I posted that Facebook update calling for less boisterous celebration and more remembrance of those who died on 9/11, something funny happened.  There were 107 comments on my update within only a couple of hours.  While nearly everybody agreed and thought it would be smart to be less boisterous, there was one person who just went bonkers.  He started posting foul language, cussing at those who had agreed with my statement.  It was, from what I could see, a demonstration of the exact behavior that I felt was bad for our country on the day when we made a huge step in the War against Terror.  Frankly, it saddened me a great deal.

There is a time for wild parties.  There is a time for celebration.  I, though, personally do not think that the killing of Usama bin Laden called for such behavior.  Yes, I have no problem with people feeling joy over the death of such a terrible person.   Celebration, though, goes a bit too far, in my opinion.

Perhaps your opinion is different?  Let us know by commenting below.